Todd saw the hand specialist today, who confirmed there were bones in both wrists broken. He has another new cast on one arm (orange and black!) and a slightly more industrial brace on the left wrist. He’ll have a minor surgery next Wednesday on the right wrist (which is actually good news–healing will supposedly be faster with a screw than a cast alone). It looks like Todd will be working on molding the impression of his butt in the couch cushions for another couple weeks, but also giving his one good leg quite a workout. Here’s Todd showing off his latest apparatuses (according to Wikipedia, that really is a word!?) while hanging out with Sam and, sadly, watching more tv.
With Todd being injured we’ve resorted to TV a bit more. Todd and Sam have bonded over the Muppet Show; Sam particularly loves the Swedish Chef:
This video also shows Todd’s cast and braces for posterity–hopefully only 5 weeks to go!
For those critiquing Sam’s outfit….he has his pants off because our apartment is very hot. He’s a toddler and can get away with (and loves !) being pants-free.
The real kicker is that he also injured both wrists so walking on crutches and picking up Sam are difficult. I’m sure this will all make for a funny story some time in the future, but it’s still scary at the moment. Todd was in the back of a truck when someone drove it away (not knowing he was there) and he fell out the back. It could have been much worse.
We’re still digesting all the many ways this is impacting our lives. We’re scrambling to figure out how we can both manage work and Sam, particularly next week since we don’t have much time to plan.
Todd and I were both off work today for the holiday, and Sam’s daycare was open as usual. We actually had a nice, long, relaxing day together and didn’t have to watch the clock for our bedtime or worry about how much money we were spending on the babysitter. We had a nice lunch at one of our old favorite places in Soho, then saw the movie Crazy Heart. I also bought some fancy new sunglasses in anticipation of my lasek surgery coming up in a couple weeks. It was the best President’s Day ever!
Sam really loves the bath lately, but sadly, it isn’t really the bath that’s fun for Sam, it’s the fun on the bed AFTER the bath that gets him excited. He wants out of the bath pretty quickly into it, and he even giggles when we get out the towel. After the bath, we keep his pajamas off for a while and let him play on our bed. He likes jumping on the bed, fallling into pillows, and more recently, Playing Motorcycle. We set up the pillows in a row and he sits on one and pretends its a motorcycle (or a boat, or a garbage truck, etc.). We crash, we stop for coffee breaks (which may include cheese or guacamole) and we stop to look at the surrounding animals. He’s crazy for this game, and unfortunately it isn’t the same when we put the pillows on the floor so we really have to stay on our toes to make sure he doesn’t get too close to the edge of the bed.
The long-term memories won’t solidify for another couple years, but Sam has started to remember things for longer periods of time. Yesterday we were playing with play-doh and he asked me to make Gumby. He only knows who Gumby is because Grandma had a figurine he played with several weeks ago. For over a week after we left Wisconsin, he was asking to go downstairs to play with Reed (who lives in Wisconsin and NOT in an apartment downstairs from us). When he sees pictures of himself playing with his cousins in Maggie’s and Rosie’s room, he says “Get down, Reed!” (Reed was climbing on Rosie’s bed withouth permission). He even occasionally still talks about firecrackers (“Boom, up in the sky”), which he experienced in Oklahoma in late November. It’s strange and amusing to us to see these memories resurface–his little brain is working hard to retain all this information!
We’ve decided to take our apartment off the market for a while. We had minimal interest to our ads and open houses and the dropping real estate prices were discouraging. The real estate agents have told us summer would be a better time (and an easier time for us to have open houses) so we’ll reevaluate in a couple months. Although we wish we had that bigger, 2BR apartment, we can make do for now. It certainly takes a lot of pressure off–keeping the apartment clean and getting Sam out of the apartment for the open houses has been taxing.
We brought the potty chair home last night and Sam LOVED it.
Then tonight he pooed in the potty—no kidding! Success, but it was just a fluke (he’s got some obvious signs that it’s coming). Sorry, no pic for that one….too gruesome.
Last night was my first night ever without Sam. Todd and Sam left for Wisconsin yesterday to lend support to his family and attend a family funeral. It was a tough good-bye and there were several moments yesterday when I really missed both of them. It was also a little freeing to be completely on my own terms again (I wasn’t working yesterday either!). I’m not excactly living it up, though. I’ve got a lot of work to get done so I’ll be working longer hours. I will be having fun toinght–it’s my first volleyball game of the season (also my first since Sam since I injured my wrist several months ago).
There was a very touching moment yesterday before they left. Todd and I were hugging with Sam playing on the floor. Sam looked up at us then came over and hugged my leg. He’s generally not a cuddly kid and only comes in for a hug when we ask him to, but he must have sensed my sadness since he let Todd and I crouch down and have a little family hug!
Sam is doing really well with the change of scenery. Todd told me the flight was a breeze (although no nap….so much for his schedule!). The stranger anxiety seems to be gone and he’s having fun with all the new things to play with and places to explore.
